Anonymous asked: you said to lay a sheet down.... if you're making out and you aren't really planning on having sex but then you do wouldnt it be awkward to be like oh wait i might bleed lets cover the bed?

Just do it before hand. If you think that you’re going to have sex, then make your bed and just double up the sheets.

Or, if you’re making out and you feel like you’re heading in that direction, then just say, “Hold on, let me put an extra sheet down just in case”. I mean it’s not just for bleeding if it’s your first time, it also stops cum from getting on your sheets. So it’s pretty acceptable to say that and if he asks why you’re doing that, just say that you don’t want to get cum on your bedsheets.

-Halle

Anonymous asked: what is your best advice for having sex the first time? :$

• Bring a lite tampon or pad because you may bleed
• lay down an extra sheet just in case you do bleed
• don’t worry about it or set yourself up for it to be painful, because if you do it will be a lot more painful if you think it will be
• make sure you trust the person to go slowly and gently
• use a condom!!!!!!!!!

-Halle

Anonymous asked: can you give me more details on breaking your hymen? my bf and i have been together a long time and i know we'll have sex soon and i'm confused about the initial "virginity loss." what is it like? will i bleed? will it hurt? you know. also, if he is a virgin, will it only last like a minute? helppppp ahh

Everyone’s hymen is different. Some people bleed, some people don’t but it’s always good to be prepared. Put an extra sheet down and bring a light tampon or pad just in case. It may hurt a little, especially if you don’t masturbate and aren’t used to those feelings.

The amount of time it takes him to cum depends on if he masturbates and other things. He could finish quickly, or he may not finish at all just because his penis isn’t used to that kind of feeling. Don’t sweat it if he doesn’t, you didn’t do anything wrong! It’s natural.

-Halle

Anonymous asked: how do you get a boy to have sex with you

You need to be seductive. Show cleavage, be sexy! - Britney Spears

Anonymous asked: Do you make a lottt of noise when you be havin sexx

I feel like this is a joke question but I’ll answer it anyways because noises are really a skill and technique and can heighten your partner’s experience. 
Like if you’re with someone who’s quiet during sex, usually it’s better to be quieter because you don’t want to be to dominating. If you’re with someone who’s loud, be loud but not as loud as them because you want your partner to feel like they’re in power and dominant. If you’re having rough and/or kinky sex fuck it and make as much noise as you want, you can even talk if you think it’s necessary and like tell your partner to fuck you harder or stuff like that.
-Halle 

Anonymous asked: What is it like to have sex for the first time?

Go to Target and buy crappy, cheap sheets that you can throw out because you will most likely bleed a lot or a little and yeah you don’t want to sleep on those sheets ever again even if you wash them.

If you don’t masturbate, it will be kind of painful and weird feeling because you just won’t be used to that kind of intense pleasure in such a sensitive area. It really does matter who your first time is with, so wait if you don’t think he’s going to stick around after. It’s important that you trust the person because they’re going to have to go slow the first few times. Bring a light tampon or pad to put in after if you bleed. Don’t take too many risks or push yourself too far. Remember to use a condom!

-Halle

Anonymous asked: how many times have you had sex?

How many times?? Um.

30+ i guess, but that’s a complete estimate.

-Halle

Anonymous asked: I think I'm too fat for sex. I'm a guy and I weight 160 pounds, I'm 5'7. I think I'd just be too fat for her and she wouldn't want to. What should I do?

uhm i’m sure you’re not too fat for sex. unless you’re so obese that you can’t get an erection or locate your penis, but that doesn’t sound like the case. do you think you’re too heavy for a girl to find you attractive enough to sleep with?

i mean if you think your weight is that big of a problem, try and do something about it. work out, build muscle, eat less and healthier. every little bit counts.

but a woman isn’t going to sleep with you just because you’re thin/muscular. try talking to girls, put yourself out there. it sounds more like you have an issue with your confidence than your actual weight.

Hello, young sexual beings! I’m Britney Spears.. NO, not really. Of course.. I wish to remain anonymous, so that’s my alias. I look forward to filling your minds with what you’ve always desired. Okay, seriously now. I’m on Tumblr a lot, so I have all of the time in the world to give you all advice, and answer questions. I hope to give you the best input I can :)

Anonymous asked: just out of curiosity how do you ever have the right time/place to bang? do you ever get paranoid you'll get walked in on? I guess every girl wants to think her first time will be all nice on a bed and stuff but where do you ever get enough privacy to do it when you're still in highschool with parents and all?

erm idk my situation is really different i guess, so i don’t think it’d really help. 

but i guess if your parents go away for the weekend, do it then. or while you’re at work. if either of you have a car, you could do it there. 

erm idk it’s pretty tricky i guess.